Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Up Close and Personal - Digging Deep in January 2013 Or, What a CRAZY Year 2013 Was For Me!


Up Close and Personal - Digging Deep in January 2013
Or, What a CRAZY Year 2013 Was For Me!

Okay, so most of you who read my blog know that the craziness started in May of 2012 when I had an impacted wisdom tooth.  I was down for the count for about a month, when low and behold, I broke my heel.  Ya, if you've ever tried to think while taking Oxycodone, you know I was down for quite a few weeks.  Thank God I didn't have to have surgery!  So here I was thinking maybe this is God's was of telling to to slow down or stop and smell the roses...    
 
I was just getting back into the swing of things when, low and behold, our house sold and we had to get ready to move.  Moving is stressful at any time, but this was a short sale which was very disconcerting for my husband. And during this time, BofA starting selling books of loans and short sales were being canceled.  Now, again, if you have read my blog, you know that my husband has to have a security clearance for his job and a foreclosure could be disastrous.  So, once again thanking God, we made it through the crazy process and it was time to move.

The move was originally supposed to take place at the end of September but was moved to the middle of October as things progressed.  That was fine except that my mother was supposed to have knee replacement surgery the first week of October.  "That's okay, I can handle it", I thought.  I can get her taken care of and then complete the move afterwards.

HA!  Funny!  I love my mother so very much, as most of you know.  And I am the only child, so her care falls on me and my children.  So immediately after the surgery, things started to go wrong.  She had a TIA (mini-stroke) 2 days after surgery, which left her a bit dazed and confused.  And they were having trouble with things such as her salt and potassium levels.  This meant another couple of days in the hospital to get things stabilized.  Finally, after surgery on Monday, she was transferred to rehab on Friday evening.

The rehab that had a bed for her was a really good one that I had heard of and I just knew they would take good care of her there.  This was also the same weekend that we had the UHAUL truck and were doing the biggest portion of our move.  So on Saturday, I went to visit her around 10:30 in the morning on one leg of my trip from one home to the other.

At that time, she told me that earlier she had had pains and trouble breathing.  She said she was better, that they had come in and moved her body position around and she just had a little bit of chest pain.  So I left as she was better.  Around 3PM, I spoke with her and she said she was still hurting but guessed it was due to the positioning of her body still.  About 6:30PM, my aunt had talked to her and she was crying because her chest hurt so bad and they rehab "wouldn't help" her.  She was very distressed.  She then called me crying.  She said they told her she was just upset because of the move and wouldn't help her.  I told her to hang up and tell them to call 911 right away.

Like 20 minutes later, a man called my cell from the rehab asking my "permission" to take her to the hospital... REALLY???? Like they need my permission!  He acted like I was crazy for giving it, as if she needed it!  She has a mind as sharp as a tack!

I can't believe they wasted so much time and let her lay there and have a heart attack!  Crazy!  Needless to say, she was in the hospital for a couple of weeks and then went to a friend's house to recuperate.

It was like five weeks of craziness, what with the move and all.  And real estate?  HA, that's a good one! But in the end, God is amazing and protected her from a situation that could have been much worse.  And I made it through and even got my house in order to have my husband's company Christmas party and our family Christmas Day!
Momma 2012
Happy New Year to all, and now, I'm back in the real estate saddle once again!
(Momma, Christmas 2012)

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Warmest Regards,
Linda K. Mayer, Realtor

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